ABF 21.25 / SAKEWITZ


Redefining Family Through Christ

The discussion centers on redefining “family” through a Christ-centered lens. Pastor Colin and Joe Vaught challenge the modern, liberal redefinition of family, arguing that while the biological family is important, a spiritual family forged in Christ holds greater significance. This isn’t about rejecting biological families, but about prioritizing a divinely ordained family relationship based on faith and shared beliefs. The speakers emphasize that this redefinition does not replace the biological family but elevates it, transforming it into something more profound and enduring.

Language and Spiritual Kinship

A crucial aspect is the language used to describe this spiritual family. The New Testament frequently employs terms like “brothers” and “sisters,” extending far beyond mere blood relations. The speakers highlight how this language fosters a deep sense of belonging and mutual accountability within the faith community. They advocate for adopting this terminology to reflect the reality of their shared spiritual family, even when interacting with unfamiliar believers. This linguistic shift, they argue, is essential to embodying a truly Christ-like community.

The Great Commission and God’s Family

The Great Commission, the speakers assert, is intrinsically linked to expanding God’s family. Making disciples isn’t just about converting individuals, but about integrating them into a loving, supportive community. This means actively seeking out and nurturing new believers, while also holding each other accountable within that family structure. This spiritual family isn’t a welfare state; it is a community committed to mutual growth and service, reflecting Christ’s actions and teachings.

Conflict and Accountability within the Family

The discussion acknowledges the potential for conflict between spiritual and biological family loyalties. They reference Jesus’s actions in entrusting his mother’s care to John rather than his unconverted brothers to illustrate how this distinction plays out in practice. The speakers use examples like choosing between family Thanksgivings to highlight the potential conflict and encourage believers to actively prioritize their spiritual family even when it results in tension with their biological relationships.

Eternal Inheritance and Conclusion

The speakers conclude by emphasizing the eternal significance of belonging to God’s family. They highlight the eternal inheritance and glory promised to those who are united with Christ and refer to scripture illustrating the profound responsibility and privilege of being adopted as God’s children. This powerful concept reinforces the importance of nurturing and upholding the spiritual bonds formed through faith and shared devotion to Christ.


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