- Joseph’s story was never meant to be about Joseph—but a small part of a greater narrative
- Hebrews 11
- Joseph didn’t “cash in” on God’s blessing when he got to the palace, but continued to serve God
- We get to observe Joseph’s trajectory as a man, but we also get some glimpses of some detail. His ability to forgive stands out as a great example
- Many people who serve God have had ample sin in their life, but Joseph has very little
- He is often seen as an archetype of Christ, specifically in his forgiveness and providence
- Genesis 45
- Joseph is faithful to so many people: his father, guys in prison, warden, Potiphar, Pharaoh, and his brothers. But often he’s “rewarded” with more difficulty
- Joseph was the victim of unspeakable, traumatic bitterness which manifest into evil action. How could he forgive this level of treachery?
- Forgiveness is to expunge debt: to erase it completely. The wrong is removed. Today, forgiveness has been expunged. We cancel people and achievements, and we turn fully away from relationships
- If forgiveness does exist, it’s been made punitive at best and it’s a bastardization. And unforgiveness has been lifted up as a virtue
- Ephesians 4:32. Disciples forgive as Christ forgave. And Christ had no caveat to the extent of his forgiveness. False forgiveness is a sin
- Adults act like children in their retribution through emotional abuse in their unforgiveness
- When we don’t truly forgive, we fester and rot away. It’s like “drinking poison and expecting another person to die”
- Christ’s forgiveness beckons people to come closer to you, and closer to God. It is healing
- Romans 12:19
- We will keep sinning against one another, especially when many of us sinners are together. But we’re called to community and all the forgiveness it takes to grow together
- People say forgiveness only happens when it’s asked for. But Joseph obliterates that assertion by example
- Another myth is that forgiveness can only happen when there’s full repentance. Again Joseph proves differently as his brothers don’t even seem repentant
- A big reason for our ugly and loveless culture is our lack of a forgiving spirit or even knowledge of what it is and where forgiveness comes from
- Does forgiveness require us to forget? No, Joseph brings up clearly their grievous sin in front of them
- Forgiveness would be less beautiful if we simply forgot about the wrong
- Joseph’s actions are so powerful because they reflect Christ so well.
- There’s still a reconciliatory process which must take place. We must live in forgiveness and move past. This is why Matthew 18 helps us through this trauma
- Joseph had seemingly no loss of love for his brothers. This is an amazing heart behind godly action
- Forgiveness is obliged to redeem and restore relationship and love, if it is to follow Christ
- Joseph’s actions are so powerful because they reflect Christ so well.
- There’s still a reconciliatory process which must take place. We must live in forgiveness and move past. This is why Matthew 18 helps us through this trauma
- Joseph had seemingly no loss of love for his brothers. This is an amazing heart behind godly action
- Forgiveness is obliged to redeem and restore relationship and love, if it is to follow Christ
QUESTIONS:
- HOW DO YOU FORGIVE? WHAT PURPOSE DOES IT HAVE?
- DO YOU ALLOW YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH CHRIST TO INFORM THAT PROCESS?
- WHAT MYTHS ABOUT FORGIVENESS HAVE YOU HAD TO OVERCOME?







